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I'd like your opinion on a disgust/sick matter!

Journal Entry: Thu Sep 6, 2012, 4:09 PM
  • Mood: Disgust
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  • Watching: Despicable Me
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Hey Guys, I'd like your opinion on something, comment please if you have the time.

Okey so I'm getting the blame for protecting my sister-in-law (or soon to be sister-in-law) because I'm protecting her from what could be a paedophile on Facebook and DA. Now she is 13 years old and she was dating a 16 year old on-line and this "16 year old girl" thinks that it's okey to get a 13 year to send her naked pictures of herself.
I have proof that this "16 year old girl" admits to asking and bring up the idea of asking the 13 year old to take these pictures, I was the one that found these pictures on the 13 year old sisters phone and what would you do:
Tell her mother about the pictures?
Ignore them?
Or just forget you ever saw them?
Well I chose the obvious one, I told her mother and this "16 year old girl" thinks that I'm in the wrong for telling her mother even though taking these pictures and being in possession of these pictures is against the law, now I've never done anything against the law because I know what's right and wrong.
I've looked on the internet for if these things are actually against the law and it says "Yes, it is", It's something called "Sex-ting".
Now I think this "16 year old girl" is sick and what she has made the 13 year old do is gross. The 13 year old is now mentally hurt from all this because the "16 year old girl" claims to love her and made the 13 year old feel special, now if anyone made you feel special and said they loved you you would never take naked pictures just to make someone happy which this "16 year old girl" claims that is what the 13 year old was doing but if you truely love someone you would NEVER make someone do something as sick and indecent as this.

Please comment with you opinion, I'd like to know what everyone else thinks.
Thanks xxxx

Lauren xxxx

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:iconkrooked-glasses:
Krooked-Glasses Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Gosh, this whole deal just gives me chills. Poor young girl. I'm always worried about my nephews and niece because of things like this. And because of what I went through as a kid.

And, I agree with everyone else. You did do the right thing and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2012
Thanks for your opinion and support it means alot <3
Yea I have 2 brothers, 1 sister and 1 sister-in-law, I'm always worried for them too but this time it actually happened to my sister-in-law so I'm just hoping it doesn't ever happen again xxxx
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Ssargasm Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
You definitely did the right thing. What Charlotte was doing was illegal and I think that Sommer was caught up in an online relationship because she was too young to see what it really is. I think a break from the internet is definitely was Sommer needs to get Charlotte to leave her alone. Plus, her and her friends are as immature and irritating as shit.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
Yea I agree. Thanks very much for you opinion and support <3
And it seems that Charlotte's inflence on Sommer is disappearing now because she is getting on with school and stuff. Her attuide as changed completely too now she isn't talking to her xxxx
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Ssargasm Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
I'm glad that Sommer's parents were able to step in and stop this. Charlotte's behavior (the child porn written by her) was not taken lightly by many of the people on this site.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
Yea I know about the child pron she wrote, I saw it on facebook, I was disgusted so was her mother because she was the one that found it.
And I didn't know that people were telling her off for it on DA.
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Ssargasm Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2012
Yeah, a lot of people told her that it was child pornography, but she just acted immature and denied it.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2012
Well I guess she didn't realise that it was against the law because she doesn't think that the pictures were illegal because they were 'in love'. But it is, so she has now dug a VERY big hole for herself. Xxx
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Ssargasm Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2012
She really has. Well, I wish you the best of luck with your predicament! You seriously did the right thing.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2012
Thank you very much xxxx <3
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kitsumekat Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2012
Excuse my language but fuck that bitchy girl and her dumbfucked friends. What you did was right and if she whines about it, tell the mom. 13 years old these days are being manipulated into relationships by people older than them. Also, what the girl is doing is illegal.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2012
Yea I know xD
Thanks for your opinion and support <3
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kitsumekat Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
You're welcome. You're a good sister/family member.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
Awwww Thanks xxxx
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NOKAPIplz Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Yikes! That's all I have to say.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Lol x'D
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Alriandi Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student Digital Artist
16 year old?

I thought the person in question was 20.

You did the right thing, though.
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CharIie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
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Alriandi Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
That does not make what you did and doing now is alright. This 13 year-old has a caring and loving family that don't want the young girl to get in trouble.

Not only can you get into major trouble and be branded a paedophile, but the young girl can get in trouble for giving you those files.

You are also being very immature about this matter too.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
No, one was 13 years old the other 16 years old.

Thanks for you opinion though and support <3
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Alriandi Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student Digital Artist
Yeah well I thought the 16 year old once said that they were 20 or something, but knowing her who knows how old this person is.

No problem.
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CharIie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
    And when did I say that? :roll:
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Alriandi Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
Back in your first account, before your suspension.
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CharIie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
    Can you provide proof? Because I certainly don't remember.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2012
Yea, if she has lied to you about her age then who knows how old she really is. <3
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CharIie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
    Dude.
    I AM 16. I can even take a picture of my freaking birth certificate if you'd like. :I
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
Go away Charlotte, I'm allowed to agree with people what I think I don't need you butting in and spying on my comments.
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CharIie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
    No. I hate people calling me a liar. Because I know what I am. And I know what I am not.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
I'm not calling you a liar, I'm stating my OPINION, Go away or I'll open the bottle of pills for you.
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Alriandi Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2012  Student Digital Artist
Exactly.

Your sister-in-law doesn't need someone like this in her life. This person not only lies about who tey really are, but also has no regarded for the rules and laws of both online and real life.

All I have seen from this possible is drama, written porn and when she was banned for CP she just ban evaded and thought that because your sister-in-law was on dA, it would be okay.

Like I said, this is not something she wants in her life. She may hate it but it may be best to tell her what paedophilia is and how bad it can be to children
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2012
Yea I agree, even though they say they were happy together. I don't think that my sister-in-law needs bad influences in her life at the moment.
I'm sorry but what's CP? o.o (Sorry I'm dumb xP)
Yea, we've explained what pedo's do and stuff, she now understands about it all, whether she pays attention or not is up to her to decide but hopefully she listens to us.
xxxx <3
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Alriandi Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
CP is the shorten form of child porn.

That is good to hear.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2012
Ohhhhhh! Now I know xD
Yea it is :)
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GnJNetter Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student General Artist
Waaait.... I misread! I see you did tell her! XD Sorry. Good job though!
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Lol, No worries <3
Thanks for your opinion and support <3
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GnJNetter Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student General Artist
You're welcome! I"m glad there was justice!
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Yea, there was. I'm glad some people so where I'm coming from <3
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GnJNetter Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student General Artist
I kept up with the drama, so I knew what was going on C:
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Ah I see xD
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GnJNetter Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student General Artist
XD Yep.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Lol, Thanks for your opinion and support <3
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GnJNetter Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student General Artist
I say tell her parents everything. She's 13 and legally can't make those decisions herself, so I suggest you tell and show her mother the pictures.
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h-irsch Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Student Digital Artist
I can understand why her friends are calling you shit but really, she's 13 years old. Yes, nobody ever fucks up at 13 years old. Really now, she's sending nude photos of herself over the internet. Sending anything private on the internet is a fairly dangerous act, let alone nude pictures of a minor.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
I don't blame them for calling me a bitch and stuff but they need to see it from my point of view and what would they do if they were in my position.
And sending photo's over the internet is dangerous no matter what age you are.
Thanks for you opinion and support <3
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Trinity-Raven Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
You did the right thing. She's a minor and shouldn't be doing that. The age of consent is 16 in the UK right? If they TRULY loved each other, then they would be patient enough to wait to do something like that till she is of age.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Yea I agree, She is a minor and it is 16 for consent.
Thanks for your opinion and support <3
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Typhloser Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You did the right thing. She should be lucky she has a family that looks out for her.
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xxDarkWolfie Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Thanks <3
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Typhloser Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No prob~
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projectsonic Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012   Writer
FYI, Porn was written about them too.

Thumbs up for you and protecting your sister from something most parents gloss over. Sexting is all kinds of stupid things when it comes to such a relationship, and such problematic online relationships should be shut down because of what they cause. Not just the possibility that such pictures would be accidentally released onto the Internet, but because this relationship was just plain unhealthy to begin with in all sorts of ways.

inb4 backlash, I'm ready for it.
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